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The Spiral of Inaction

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Hello again, Spirit Animals.

Continuing the application of Mark Douglas' Five Fundamental Truths about trading applied to life, today we explore:

Truth #2: You Do Not Need to Know What Happens Next to Make Money.

According to Dr. Julis Torelli, this is how it applies to life:

 

You Do Not Need to Know What Happens Next to Live Well

Most anxiety is an attempt to solve uncertainty in advance.

Life is not a math problem you finish before living. It is lived in direct contact with the unknown.

You do not need:

  •  Total clarity before acting

  •  Guarantees before loving

  •  Certainty before beginning

  •  Permanent answers before moving forward

You need enough clarity for the next honest step. That is all.

There is a line between planning and compulsive rehearsal. The test is simple: does this thinking lead to a decision, or does it loop? Planning ends in action. Compulsive rehearsal ends in more rehearsal. One is preparation. The other is a trauma response wearing a productivity costume.

Sean here:

How often when trading do we wait for "perfect" before acting, and then miss a great opportunity? In life, how often do we get caught in a spiral of inaction, getting stuck on the uncountable ways something might go wrong instead of simply taking a small step forward into the unknown and betting on it going right?

I don't know which comes first: learning to step forward into uncertainty in life, or learning to take the next trade when it feels hard? I think experience in either area positively effects the other in a self-sustaining feedback loop.

I'm trying to do more in both.

Easier said than done, of course. But something to be mindful of.

 

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