Today I closed a winning trade. Booked a gain. The kind of thing I tell others (and myself) to celebrate.
So why do I feel bad about it?
Maybe “bad” isn’t the right word. More like unsettled.
Here’s the situation:
The stock had started to break down a bit on the daily chart, so I followed my process and exited. Textbook move, right?
But here’s what’s bothering me…
The stock is still above its 50-day moving average.
It’s still in a hot sector.
And I had January 2027 calls. That’s over 18 months until expiration!
With that much time, why did I feel the need to micromanage?
This is one of those moments where the trade was technically breaking support, yes — but the bigger question I’m sitting with is: Did I kneecap this trade too early? Did I cut off a potential monster winner because I was too zoomed in?
My risk was defined. I could’ve ridden it longer.
Maybe smaller sizing would’ve helped me let it breathe?
Maybe I’m just overthinking? (I do that.)
But one reminder that helps bring me back to center:
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This kind of talk makes me uncomfortable.
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Stop losses. Profit targets. They’re there for a reason. They say, “This is as far as I’m willing to go.” They define my comfort zone — both for risk and for reward.
If a trade moves beyond my stop, I start losing more than I’m okay with.
If a stock races beyond my upper price target, I start to worry it’s overextended and due for a sharp correction.
These aren’t just technical lines on a chart — they’re psychological lines in the sand. And as much as I know they’re important, I’ll admit: boundaries are hard for me.
Sometimes I break them.
Sometimes I blur them.
Sometimes I forget why I set them in the first place.
And the more time I spend in the markets, the more I realize:
Trading teaches me about far more than markets — it teaches me about me.
Every time I ignore a stop loss or stretch a target, I’m not just failing as a trader — I’m revealing something deeper about how I operate. Because when I struggle to hold boundaries in my trading, it’s usually because I’m struggling to hold boundaries in other parts of my life, too.